LIFE IS A CONTRACT......

Prospectively, it is a dialectic one.In general, we can say that life is a Venture nay,Business.
Venture is incorporated for short span of time with hazard and narrow motive.On the contrary,Business is incorporated in long and ever run basis with benevolent motto.
Similar to that,When we get to affect with somebody to lay foundation of relation like a friend or more than friends.
Abruptly,appeared a hidden vested interest from any sides.
Incidentally,It  has been already germinated in pseudo manner.In which, it helps to sully a true relation.

I would like to excerpt a true  incident in this respects.
A son of aristocrat and cultured family, Falls in Love with a girl.( well educated ).Gradually, the girl starts playing a dirty game, since,this  boy was good natured and innocent gentle man and also,never had experience in these dirty games.

She played with his emotions and established a  pseudo relation just to enjoy her time.The guy proposed this girl modestly.On seeing his  financial condition,She rejects him in an unceremonious way, saying  "DO NOT EVER CONTACT OR CALL ME UP".

So, We see that sound financial  condition is the basis of any relation.Side by side, people run after money and no true relation is formed. There is very little presence of Love  and look for their self interest.So, the relationships formed are not long lasting and they move on in their separate  ways.Thus, in today's world life is a Venture.
Contextually, those who set a side the above facts, Live their lives to the  fullest.Where there is no  stalemate  in this regard, we treat them a  true, "Business".

Apparently, it is visible that, there are still  Lacunae in our Modern Education and Culture. (!)

The dark after dawn

Eventually,An interesting paradox is Bengali's   have  forgotten to take a dim view of  their qualities in every fields.Viz. a)Education &Culture(advocate to  lecturer);b) Business& Entrepreneurship(all round prosperity);c)Science &Spiritual(research&reformation);d)Politics & Social works(quality leadership);Besides,Indian Administrative Services,(IAS),Indian foreign services(IFS)and also,Chartered &Cost Accountant in their respective  position or post.
Era, We had had gotten proficient in Bengal,those who uphold their sovereignty& integrity erstwhile in India.Alias!such personality  are not seen indeed.Unfortunately,however,the Bengali's has plagued of leg pulling with their natives,Lack of broad mindedness,Poor  level of self confidence,Not contemplating to contest widely.
Our Educational system is not upto the standard so as to contest with different states,Syllabus is not up to the mark,Living uncovered dictatorship,Roaming indiscipline lifestyle,Dreams are looming but no parallel counter part.Side by side,true teachers are still bereaved from the institution,result in,poor  education and students career harassed.
Last but  not the least,We have lost our minimum gesture   to pay respect our senior/s,and also,no minimum courage  to ensure to one's protection.Haplessly,we do not follow  up the valuable  message of our respected monks Swamiji & Sri Aurobindo & Others.Thus,intentionally & unintentionally  want to get away  from our halcyon,leading to tension and depression in various phases of our  lives.
Furthermore, we feel to maintain good relationship with others in  general.we take no notice of wretchedness relatives despite our ability to do so.
Need reformation steps should be ensured so that no such occurrence occurs in the name of education and culture(?)
Only a few bengali's are soaring the  flagship of  bengalis in their respective  post.
I am afraid to say that,we have to make a vow to regain the halcyon days,once and for all.

True Friend Or True Love?

Love and Infatuation.. Two Words, Different Meanings..

Commonly we are confused What's Love and What's Infatuation.

We always mistake Infatuation for Love and that's where our life takes the path that we are not supposed to walk on. And that cannot be atoned. Not now Not ever.

Generally we all overlook the things we have. Sometimes True love is right in front of your eyes and you never realize it. It might be a True Friend Who was always there for you, always cared for you and always wanted to be with you.. You just did not recognize him.